Happiness is a
state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to
intense joy. Whatever we do in our life reflects our intention to pursue
happiness at the end, either by doing any task or achieving our goal. No one
wants to live a life of misery, but it is however difficult to live happily
forever. Because, none of us lives in Utopia and the world is always full with surprising
challenges, difficulties and issues that reflect growing tensions, for all of
us. So if one falls in the horizon of these difficulties or challenges, it
becomes difficult for him/her to turn back in the state of mind which is full
of joy and happiness.
Though, it is not
a matter to have masters in rocket sciences, have an international university
degree, to become the wealthiest person, or have the most intelligent mind in
the universe, in order to achieve happiness and live a life of prosperity, all
it requires is to use and follow such timely and apt principles that will
brought you into state of mind of joy and a life of happiness. So the question
is, is it really simple? The answer is yes, but on a condition, that if you are
willing to become happy, then you can be. It is really up to you dude. So let’s
start to sign in for happiness:
1. Don’t take
things too seriously and smile often
Either you believe it or not, you don’t need
to be too serious. Therefore take a break from your life to give yourself time
to live. Laugh silly at problems as much as you can. It is the best medicine.
It will provide you the cure of all worries, grief and tensions. Remember, the
most wasted of all days is one without laughter and those who can laugh without
cause have found the true meaning of happiness. So start living well, laugh
often, and love much. And try to laugh at least 20 times a day.
Nothing you wear is more important than your
smile. When you see a person without a smile, give him yours. Let us
always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love. If
you have only one smile in you then give it to the people you love.
2. Don’t settle in the past
Many of us blast
ourselves between two stealers, regret for the past and fear of the future,
which holds us away from living in the moment and ultimately takes away our
happiness. One has to understand that the past is over and gone and cannot be
changed, and the future is not guaranteed. This is the only moment we can
experience.
So dwell not on
the past, instead use it to illustrate a lesson, and then leave it behind to
move forward. Nothing really matters except what you do now in this instant of
time. From this moment onwards you can be an entirely different person, filled
with love and understanding, ready with an outstretched hand, uplifted and
positive in every thought and deed, and a wholly new person enjoying the
blossoms of life, with love, peace, prosperity and happiness.
3. Success and happiness are interlinked
Your success and
happiness lie in you. Success is not the key to happiness, but happiness is the
key to success. Success is getting what you want. Happiness is having harmony
with what you get. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
4. Happiness is a choice and a right
Happiness is a choice, a state of mind, and
not a destination. In the absence of happiness, there's going to be stress in
life, but it's your choice whether to let it affect you or not. You want to be
miserable or want to motivate yourself, whatever has to be done; it's always
your choice.
Most of the time we look outside to the
people, things and events to brought some sort of smile and joy on our face. In
this way we give up our control on life and surrenders ourselves to others to
give happiness to us whenever they want and how much they want. But it would be
quite interesting to make your mind understood with the approach of taking
happiness as a right instead a gift. Therefore, take happiness granted to you
as a right that you inherit from birth.
5. Have faith
More than 1,000
studies have found a link between faith and living longer. It’s thought that
having strong beliefs helps people deal with stress and emotional problems, and
also seems to offer protection against heart, respiratory and digestive
problems.
Faith means believing the unbelievable.
Happiness is a choice you make when you allow faith through the entry gate and
fear through the exit gate. Faith makes all things possible and
your dedication makes it easy. When you put faith, hope and love together you can
raise positivity in a negative world.
6. Love as much as you can
Make this quote mission of life, “live, love,
learn, leave a legacy.” Love is the master key that opens the gates of
happiness. The greatest gift that we can give to others is the gift of
unconditional love and acceptance. When you love people and have the desire to
make a profound, positive impact upon the world, then you will have
accomplished true meaning to live.
7. Happiness is
within you
The foolish man
seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows under his feet. Happiness is
like a butterfly, which, when perused, is always just beyond your grasp, but
which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you. Happiness is not a
readymade phenomenon; it comes from your own actions. However, it is not easy
to find happiness in ourselves, and is completely impossible to find it
elsewhere. If you will start searching the world for happiness, you may find it
in the end, because for the world is round and will lead you back to your door.
The golden key to happiness in not situated into any treasure box, it lies
purely in intention of a man. In fact, there is no way to happiness, happiness
is the way.
8. Embrace change
Only change is
permanent. It is the law of life, and those who look only to the past or the
present are certain to miss the future. So when one door of happiness closes, think of others
which are open, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see
the one that has been opened for us. Thus embrace the change in life and go
forward to welcome the new opportunities sparkling happiness in life.
9. Don’t be too
emotional
Most of us would
be upset if we were accused of being “silly.” But it is quite humorous to know
that the word “silly” comes from the old English word “selig,” which literally
means “to be blessed, happy, healthy and joyful. However, emotions are part of
human nature, but advice is to be “silly” to come out of stressed situation.
10. Don’t make
things complicated
Follow it as a thumb rule, “keep it simple.” I
would suggest you to keep everything simple and try to have as much fun as you
can.
11. Don’t give
up your happiness
When you get into a tight place and
everything goes against you, till it seems you cannot hold on a minute longer,
never give up then for that is just the place and time the tide will turn. Never ever give up upon your happiness.
12. Forgive and forget
The last but not
least of this happiness article is to forgive. To forgive means pardoning the
unpardonable. However, forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it
feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that
inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness. And peace is the
precursor of true happiness in life.
Tolerance and forgiveness are life altering
lessons. If you will not forgive your enemies, how you can imagine yourself as
happy, when you all the time have grudge in your mind, that one day is surely
going to harm you rather than your enemies. So forgive them, and even do more
than forgiving; forget. It is the attribute of greatness. Remember, you are on
your journey to spend your life freely, happily and full of joy, and never
allow the emotions of hatred, anger and pity spoil your journey.
Conclusion
The happiest people
are those who think the most interesting thoughts. Those who decide to use
leisure as a means of mental development, who love good music, good books, good
pictures, good company, good conversation, are the happiest people in the
world. And they are not only happy in themselves; they are the cause of
happiness in others. Therefore, if you want to be happy, be. Happiness is the
phenomenon that I would rate equal to oxygen, as necessary for life. And you can’t
postpone it for the future; it had to be done, achieved and explored
immediately, in the present moment.
Be happy!
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