Thank to Stephen R. Covey, who wrote one of
the bestselling book on success and motivation “The Seven Habits of Highly
Effective People: Restoring the Character Ethic”, which revealed the secrets of
success of big business tycoons first time for the general public. It brought a
revolution in thinking of the general masses that being successful and in the
list of worlds richest is not a rocket science. All the richest and successful
people have something in common in terms of their habits and rituals at work. It
was being concluded in that book that success is the sum of some regularly
practiced habits, and nothing more. And today, I’m going to discuss those
habits of highly effective people to start our own journey towards that
destination.
1. Be Proactive
We are living free life and have the will
power to choose what we want to do or not. We have the power of controlling a
situation by causing something to happen rather than waiting to respond
to it after it happens. Productivity, then, means that we are solely in
charge for what happens in our lives. So
stop blaming anyone or anything else. Therefore we must decide what is meant to
be valuable, productive and gets the sense for us.
2. Begin
With The End In Mind
Whatever you’ve intended to do in life, start
by imagining end of the show in your mind that, what you will accomplish at the
end and then take your flight to start. It will give your mind an image of the
final picture that you want to draw along with understanding of the
consequences. Use this frame of reference to make all your day-to-day decisions
so that you are running toward your most meaningful life goals.
3. Put First
Things First
Being successful is all about managing your
time, money and resources wisely. To be successful we must manage our lives
effectively, by keeping the mission statement in mind, understanding what’s
important as well as urgent, and what is neither important nor urgent.
4. Think Win/Win
In all areas of life, everyone wants to be
benefited at any cost without caring the others, but it doesn’t prove to be a
lifelong policy to succeed. We must in our agreements and conversations
approach the ways that are mutually beneficial for all the parties by keeping
in view the needs of every group. For that purpose we all must cooperate to
find all the alternatives that can be found to be mutually beneficial.
5. Seek First
To Understand, Then To Be Understood
Listening is an art not a complex science. But
most people don’t listen while having that sense. People just listens the
speaker and start acting, devising solution or giving feedback even though
without understanding what has been said. You’ll be more effective in you
relationships with people if you sincerely try to understand them fully before
you try to make them understand your point of view. For this purpose prepare to
listen, focus, screen out distractions, concentrate on the message and ask
questions to clarify before you dive into the conversation to present your point
of view.
6. Synergize
Synergizing is the working together of two or
more things to produce an effect greater than the sum of their individual
effects. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. In practice, this means you must use
“creative cooperation” in social interactions.
We must value differences, because it is often the clash between them
that leads to creative solutions and it is quite useful.
7. Sharpen The
Saw
This is the habit of self-renewal, which has
four elements. The first is mental,
which includes reading, visualizing, planning and writing. The second is spiritual, which means value
clarification and commitment, study and meditation. Third is social/emotional, which stress
management includes service, empathy, synergy and intrinsic security. Finally, the physical includes exercise,
nutrition and stress management.
Hope you enjoyed reading!
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